The "Growing Through Grief" Series

When I Grow Too Old To Grieve
by John Kennedy Saynor

The grief experienced by those who are older is unique.  An older person may grieve the death of a spouse, a child, grandchild or close friend and companion.  An older person may also grieve the loss of mobility, independence, health and well being.  There are unique factors that affect how an older person grieves.  There are potential limitations our elders experience that may hinder their grieving process.  There are, however, ways in which older people can be helped, or help themselves, to do their grieving in a  healthy and helpful way.

Tip: A Encourage your elderly loved one to identify ways they have coped with previous crises.  Encourage them to see that they were able to survive those difficult times.  They can now draw on the same strengths.