The "Growing Through Grief" Series

When a Young Friend Dies
by John Kennedy Saynor

It would be a gross understatement to say that death is an unwelcome guest in our lives.  Not only is it an unwelcome and uninvited guest, death is an intruder.  This is especially true when you experience the death of a young friend.  The last thing you think about when you are making your plans and dreaming your dreams is that death will come and abruptly end your dreams.

Tip: A first principle of good grieving is, "allow yourself to feel pain."  Don't mask your grief with alcohol, drugs or over activity.  If you are a young man, this may be the first time in a long time you have wanted to cry.  Go ahead, cry!